Want to spice up the cliche American wedding? How about you pay homage to your ancestor’s homeland by including a few (not too out there) traditions into your big day? You can even consider combining your’s and the groom’s bloodline traditions into a truly unique celebration.
-As the bride, carry lengths of white ribbon with your bouquet to hand out at the end of the ceremony for guests to tie in a bow on their vehicles antenna. (Makes for a beautiful uniform procession to the reception).
-Decorate the hood of your “getaway car” with flowers, as opposed to hanging cans off of the trunk to clang around.
– During the toasts at the reception, include the following traditional Irish Blessing:
May your mornings bring joy and your evenings bring peace.
May your troubles grow few as your blessings increase.
May the saddest day of your future
Be no worse than the happiest day of your past.
May your hands be forever clasped in friendship
And your hearts joined forever in love.
Your lives are very special,
God has touched you in many ways.
May his blessings rest upon you
And fill all your coming days.
-(For the Mother-in-Laws) Want to ensure a loving relationship with with your new daughter? As she walks into her house for the first time after the ceremony, break a piece of the wedding cake over her head!
-For your floral arrangements, choose lilies (to represent a happy union for 100 years), orchids (to represent love, wealth, and fortune) and lotuses (to represent a shared heart and harmony).
-Instead of the Americanized embarrassing Best Man speech, stick to the Chinese way and only offer praise of the newly weds!
-At the reception, have a heart shaped piñata for your guests filled with sweet treats!
-It is custom for brides and bridesmaid to wear light blue slips under their dresses.
-For your color palette, choose bright and vibrant hues, because your wedding is an exciting celebration!
– At, or after the reception, plant a tree with your new husband to symbolize the growth in your relationship to come.
-Wear a green dress (or even just a green broach or ribbon) during your rehearsal dinner for good luck!
-Give out “confetti” or Jordan Almonds to your guests as favors to represent the sweetness as well as bitterness to come.
-I think the Brits have it right, in that the bride pays for her bridesmaid dresses! I don’t think your friends will complain.
– Give gifts to the “mums” during the speeches, either flowers or a hand written note thanking them for their help.
I know I have left out many other countries’ traditions, but a quick Google search can put you on the right path to plan a truly memorable wedding!
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